The Online Deception

Let me get this right. You have been having the dirtiest conversations online with a hot young lady who wishes she lived near you. She shares your taste in porn and would do anything with you if she could. You are considering a trip to visit her, but then you remember hearing about guys who have been tricked online. Fooled by other guys pretending to be female. Is she real?

Well you can never be totally sure they are who they say they are until you meet them, but I will give you some tips.

"She likes the same porn as me."

If a straight female is posting pictures only of naked ladies and is not interested in fit guys, then it is most likely a guy. Same goes for bisexual ladies. If they like both sexes then they would be sharing pictures of both. This does not mean that just because she does not want to see your cock it is a guy. Gay guys have been known to pretend they are female to get straight guys to send them pics.

"Ah, well she has sent me pics of herself so I know she is real!"

Many fakers use pictures they have found online. The easiest way to find out is using Google Chome. Right click on an image of her in your browser and click "Search Google for this image." If it shows the same pic is available with a different girls name then ask yourself why.

"I'll get her to send me a pick of her holding up my name or something. If she won't, then she's a fake! Right?"

Wrong. Even real girls will not do this much anymore as they know the pic will end up online. Those that have done this have all regretted it. All you will do is annoy her, and if you continue to harras her to prove herself, do not be surprised when she disappears.

"But I need to know!"

No. You need to stop being an arrogant dickhead who thinks that every female online wants to fuck you just because you have a cock. It does not work like that in the real world, so why would it online? If you have any female friends who have tried internet dating, ask them how many guys tell them how they are going to fuck their brains out, or just send a cock pic as their first message. You are a man, supposedly civilised, so act like one. Small talk, flirt, and only if she is interested get raunchier.

"Oh ok. Well this chick I've been talking too keeps describing what she wants to do with me..."

How is she describing it? Men and women write differently and it is very hard for them to use the other style. Take these examples:
"I'm going to rip your pants off, stroke your cock, and suck you until you cum."
"I want to feel you, knowing your hard because of me, then savour you as you fill my mouth."
Both are written by me, but the first is in the typical masculine style. Very descriptive with little attention given to feelings or the senses. A woman, particularly an author, would be more like the second, though this does depend on thier grasp of English.

"I've been stupid, haven't I?"

Yeah. But that is what happens when you think with the wrong head!